Thursday, December 26, 2013

Mary, the Magnificat, and Michelangelo ~Terri Lytle

You can’t go to Europe without becoming keenly aware of the obsession people had (have) with Mary. In Belgium alone, a country the size of the state of Maryland (no pun intended!), there is a copious supply of stunning churches, most of which are Catholic, many named in honor of Mary. Indeed, Mary herself claimed that all generations would call her blessed (Luke 1:48), but what did she mean by that? Her beautiful psalm,the Magnificat and two of Michelangelo’s sculptures give insight into this most admired woman.
 
Mary, like other godly women before her, even as far back as Eve, looked forward to the day when God would send His Redeemer. These women, like Mary, were not perfect, but they did believe God and His promises. As much as they hoped in God’s redeeming plan, and even the possibility that their offspring would be “the One,” they probably did not contemplate that God would purpose such unconventional cultural means involving unwed pregnancy and compromised reputation: tongue wagging scandal to acquaintances and quiet, heartbreaking, disbelief to dear ones such as Joseph.
 
Announcements change lives! If you’ve ever learned you were pregnant or received news of adoption, you know how many thoughts race through your mind. Mary must have had many especially since Gabriel the angel was telling her the news instead of a test strip, doctor’s office, or adoption agency! She might have thought about what the response of the people around her would be, but she willingly, quickly counted the cost and surrendered any worries about the “how” to the “Who.” The weight of the troubles seemed small and temporary compared to the immeasurable, everlasting, great glory that God would accomplish (2 Corinthians 4:17). 
 
Mary’s remarkable response was threefold: belief, willing obedience, and joyful worship. First, she believed, saying, “May everything you have said come true.” (Luke 1:38) Elizabeth, her relative, also testified to Mary’s belief, saying, “You are blessed, because you believed that the Lord would do what He said.” (Luke 1: 46-47). Second, her willing submission to God’s plan is evident. “I am the Lord’s servant.” (Luke 1: 38) She showed her willingness to accept whatever He desired according to His timetable and arrangement. Third, Mary couldn’t contain the rejoicing of her soul anymore when she saw her relative Elizabeth (who had also received a supernatural birth report from the angel) and she worshipped God with her song called the Magnificat (Luke 1:46 – 55). In this New Testament psalm, Mary says generations will call her blessed, not because of anything she’s done, but because God has done great things for her. She recognizes her sin, calling God her Savior. She pours over God’s attributes as well as a scholar, recounting His holiness, mercy, omnipotence, imminence, and faithfulness from generation to generation. He is portrayed as an active God, bringing down the proud and lifting up the unassuming, remembering His promises and helping His people. Her prophetic words are reminiscent of Hannah’s song in 1 Samuel 2: 1-10 as well as Psalms 34, 35, 71, 89, 98, 102, 103, 105, 107, 111, and 126. Like people of her day, Mary did not own a copy of God’s Word, but had engaged her mind and listened to God’s word at synagogue, temple, and in her home. She believed what she heard, and pondered it in her heart, something she would continue to do throughout her life. She was utterly overwhelmed with the grace that God was generously granting her, considering herself undeserving.
 
During our stay in Europe, we had the privilege of seeing many pieces of religious art, but two statues in two different countries by the same man caught my interest. In 1504, the same year Michelangelo sculpted his famous “David” statue, he did a lesser known and smaller one called, “Madonna and Child.” This sculpture was the only one of Michelangelo’s works to leave Italy in his lifetime. It was sold to a wealthy family from Bruges, Belgium, who purchased it to be an altar piece for the small town’s church. It was considered a groundbreaking for its time because instead of the Jesus being tranquil and swaddled at Mary’s breast like most religious art of that era, he stands upright at Mary’s feet looking as if he’s about to take a step away from her into the world. She is not clinging, but holding onto him loosely with one hand. In Rome we saw the other Michelangelo statute, the Pieta, which depicts Mary holding Jesus’ lifeless body. She holds him with one arm; the other is palm up, signifying her unwavering submission even under crushing grief. What intrigued me most in both these sculptures was the appearance of her face. Her expression is so similar in both statues: eyes lowered, serene, accepting, pondering. So it seems, at the beginning of Jesus’ life as well as at the end, Michelangelo portrayed Mary as trusting the “how” to the “Who.” Scripture bears this out as well as we see Mary still placing her hope in God as she and the other disciples unite in constant prayer after the death of Christ (Acts 1:14). May God grant us this same grace to do likewise this Christmas season and forever.

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Terri Lytle

I am thankful for the steadfast love of my husband. Sometimes, it overwhelms me like the bold scent of pine at Christmas; other times it sneaks up on me like the scent of morning dew after a long night, reviving me. Before we even met, as a new Christian, I prayed for a godly man, a spiritual leader. I believed God had answered at the start but during the early years of our marriage battled disbelief on and off. I thought maybe I had made a mistake and chose the wrong man, mostly for fleshly reasons. Satan began to use this to build a case against our union with his fiery darts. I remember blurting out my feelings mingled with tears to an older, wiser friend who had time and ears to hear. Her eyes didn’t widen with surprise; instead, she empathized with me. She patiently listened and then pointed me to Christ and prayed for me. Over time God helped me to recognize Satan’s strategy and fight back knowing that he was no match for Jesus. God showed me that feelings, although important, are not on what true love is based. Realizing that God is using our marriage for His sanctification purposes helps me trust in Christ who is constant instead of my feelings which seem to ebb and flow like ocean tides. All the while, my husband already has this steadfast, unwavering love for me. He has that kind of love for God too, demonstrated during the suffering we experienced this year. He never faltered in his faith, his Rock was Christ, and he clung to Him like a nimble mountain climber with secure footholds and finger grips. For this, I am eternally grateful and still learning from his example.

Monday, November 25, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving~ Linda Armstrong

I am thankful for God's command to us (through the Apostle Paul) ...  [to] 'be thankful in every circumstance'.    I confess that I've often thought of this command as a last resort to gain a right attitude toward my troubles and forget it (this command) when there is a lull in 'noticeable' difficulties  {trouble is always at the door waiting to pounce on ignorance). 
 
From one of my devotional readings this morning, I received this---"And you will seek ME and find ME, when you search for ME with your whole heart."  I was convicted that my seeking was only half- (at best) hearted.  There was no wholeness to me...therefore my attempts to 'be thankful' rose to our all-knowing God as insincere and legalistic!  I repented  of my selfishly-prompted 'thankfulness' (even our repentance is generated by God into our divided hearts by His grace).
 
From my other devotional I read:  'Thankfulness opens your heart to MY Presence and your mind to MY thoughts --enabling you to see from MY perspective.'  My repentance of un-wholesome motives in approaching our God, opened my heart to His closeness and my mind to think rightly about the 'dilemmas' I was currently fretting over!  I actually saw these from a totally new angle.  Jesus' control over my circumstance (facing what I call major decisions on my own) reminded me I am NOT Alone and gave me an 'opened heart to His Presence'; and His equal control over my thoughts  (which tumbled round and round in my head) brought me to 'see things from His perspective' [--my thoughts are NOT His thoughts] on these troubles..

I praise Him (am thankful) that He will continue to convict, convince and control me.  

Sunday, November 24, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving~ Martha Gessick

Thankful for our Faithful and True God
 
I am most thankful for my daily bread (food/clothing/shelter) and safety from harm and evil. The past two decades have brought many personal struggles and suffering; yet I have seen and remember God’s faithfulness to me, my children and family. During these hard seasons of life, I am especially grateful for my church family and for my pastors who have provided love, guidance and encouragement. As I run the race of faith, I know I must focus only on Jesus as His grace is sufficient. I find reassurance in the following scriptures: Psalms145:18 “The LORD upholds all those who fall and lifts up all who are bowed down.” And James 1:2 “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.” We must all strive to be faithful as He is faithful until such time as we shall see Him face to face.

Friday, November 22, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Terri Lytle

I’m thankful for seasons. Hailing from the northeast, I observed four distinct seasons, each with its own vivid glories. I will never forget silent, snow laden winter streets at midnight under a full moon, the reflected light making it appear as dawn. Spring was ushered in when first color would sprout up to contrast a very dead looking world – pink crocuses, the principal hope that spring had arrived even if their tiny rosy buds were poking through the snow. Forsythia and finally the heady fragrance of Lilacs would give their stamp of approval. Summer was abundance. Backyard gardens teamed with mouthwatering tomatoes, beans, and peppers, all grown without soil prep or extra water, a fact I did not fully appreciate at the time. Laughter and secrets, both were shared in berry fields; the spoils poured out into sour cherry pies and blueberry crisps. Fall was a kaleidoscope of yellows, oranges, purples, and reds, swirling until they met their final union with earth, and the cycle would start all over again. Texas has four seasons too. Some say they are: “almost summer, summer, still summer, and Christmas” (yes, there’s a facebook page)! I rather like to say they are bipolar, with summer being manic, and the other seasons playing ping pong unpredictably. No matter how distinct or how subtle or how aberrant seasons are, sometimes we can’t help wishing for another season or desiring the next; the same can be said of the seasons of our lives.

A wise and apparently (from what we just learned at the W.E.L.L.) sexy man wrote about everything having a season, a time for every matter under heaven. What follows is a poetic litany of the ever-changing seasons of humankind. Just as fatigue sets in as I mull over these sweeping human affairs, Solomon asks, “What gain has the worker from his toil?” He doesn’t answer this repeated question straight up, but rather makes two statements and a conclusion. First, God has made everything beautiful in its time. Second, God planted eternity in our hearts yet we aren’t privy to the whole scope of what He is accomplishing beginning to end. God’s enduring forever and immutability stand in stark contrast to our ever-shifting human conditions. He concludes that there would be “nothing better” than to be joyful and do good as long as we live, and that we should take pleasure in all our toil – this is God’s gift. So rather than being driven to earn through our work and times and seasons of life, we ought to be centered on contentment rooted in God’s sovereignty, even if it seems like “still summer” in Texas.
 
Eccliastes 3:1- 15

P.S. I’m also thankful for wise and sexy men!

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Darla Page

Thanksgiving is by far my favorite holiday. I love the colors, the food, the weather, and the way that the holiday causes us to pause and remember what we have to be thankful for. Over the last several weeks, I have paused and recounted the things that I have not rejoiced over this past year. I believe the Lord has allowed me to remember these things because He is reminding me that in all circumstances He is still Lord and His word is still truth.
 
This year, above all, I am thankful that God isn't subject to my assumptions, who He is doesn't change because of what I feel at the moment.  He is who He is. The Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. He is truth, love, and sovereign. He is able to bring beauty from destruction, life from the dust. He is God, the way, the truth, the life, and that will never change. This Thanksgiving, in particular, I find immense peace in knowing this. In death, in loss, in the midst of a diagnosis, in my own failures as a mother and wife, in watching someone I love suffer, in grief, in persecution.......God is still God and I rest in that.
 
Thanks be to God that He is the same yesterday, today, and forevermore.

Friday, November 15, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~Kim Wheeler

As I have been thinking about writing about what I am thankful for this month, it has been difficult to choose one thing on which to focus. I feel the Lord has given me so much to be thankful for. My son, Josiah, turned three years old this month and he reminds me often of a multitude of things of which I must thank God for. I am thankful that the Lord made me a mom three years ago and has also given me a sweet little girl. I am thankful that He has given me good health to be able to care for them; that He has given me a husband that loves me and our children. I am thankful that through being a parent and a wife he has taught me that I’m not as patient, caring and sacrificial as I once thought I was. I am thankful that only through Christ will I be able to give these things to my family. I am thankful that He has provided fellowship with other women that understand this as well.

As I was taking Josiah to preschool this morning, we talked about what we were thankful for. I told him that I was thankful for him, Bekah and Daddy. I then asked him what he was thankful for (fully expecting him to follow suit and say Mommy, Daddy and Bekah) but instead he said “I’m thankful for Jesus.” I think that sums it up pretty well.

Thursday, November 14, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Ivy Minich

It hit me like a ton of bricks several years ago when Marcus said that if he "could think of one word to describe his mother it would be SELFLESS".  I decided then that I needed to attune my ear more closely to the things that the said and did!  And in the years since I have grown truly thankful for my mother in law and the example of selflessness that she is to me.
 
She has had many dramatic and varied life experiences, not the least of which is being a single mother to 4 little boys- one of which was disabled.  The stories are always heart-wrenching and surprising.  going hungry?  in America?  really??  But a repeat theme in them all is how the Lord called her to live selflessly- laying down her own life, desires, physical well-being, safety, reputation, pride and even things that I would call basic necessities so that she could humbly live out the grace of the gospel within the life circumstances that God gave her.  That is what biblical selflessness is: laying aside ones self so that the ways of God and His plans are what reign in your life.  Like Moses, when he left Egypt to suffer with the people of God.  Like Mary, when she said "I am the bondslave of the Lord, let it be to me according to your word."  And like Christ, when he laid aside so much in heaven to come to earth and live a humble life to secure for himself a bride.
 
And I so very much get to see this with my mother in law as she accepts things from the hand of the Lord with a heart of peace and the ever present thought of "my life is not my own".  And now while she perseveres again in being selfless as she raises the 4 little girls they have adopted- 2 of which are disabled, I am encouraged to LET THE LORD REIGN as I go about my small life.  As the Lord teaches me to be a selfless servant and love my husband and my children, I can do so without fear!  I do not belong to myself; I belong to my loving King.  And I am so thankful for that!

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving~ Doris Smith

THANKSGIVING – THEN AND NOW
The cider is brewing, the pies are fresh baked;
The smells of Thanksgiving, my senses awake.
Imagine, if you can, what it was like years ago
Without the conveniences which today we do know.
 
Then, many days before, preparations began;
Now, all we do is open a can.
Then, old Tom Turkey was prepared from the start;
Now, we just put him in the grocery cart.
 
Then, stuffing and potatoes were prepared from scratch;
Now, from a box we get the full batch.
Then, pies were baked and even the crust;
Now, “Mrs. Smith’s” is a necessary must.
 
Then, Mom was the one who prepared the whole fare;
Now, they are at my house, the family to share.
Then, Thanksgiving Day meant church in the morn;
Now, parades and football are early turned on.
 
Yes, things were different in those earlier days,
But one thing is the same . . . the God whom we praise.
He is our Lord and the ruler of our lives.
Let us thank Him sincerely for our bountiful supplies.

Doris D Smith

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Mary Magnuson

Some of you know that I run. Before I had children, I began running for physical fitness. I got a dog, and I decided to run because walking just took too long. My dog became one of my running buddies. I also worked out with a teacher friend for many years until we moved to Texas. When I had children, they became my partners; I crazily pushed them in the stroller (or I ran on the treadmill when they were napping).

My philosophy of working out has changed over the year. I am grateful for just moving and fitting something into most days even if it is just a run around the block. Distance used to be important to me, but I stopped letting that get in the way. Speed became less significant too. Now what is important is finding time whether with my children or alone, in which I can relieve some stress, appreciate my physical abilities, pray to our Lord, to appreciate nature, to reflect on life and to be an example to my children.

Once my children, John and Anna, were old enough, they accompanied me on their bikes or on their skates. Through these times, the Lord has tested my patience. I couldn’t worry about going fast if I had to help one of them turn a corner with his or her bicycle. I sometimes held their hands while they skated. This also meant that speed couldn’t be put in front of my desire to go faster. I had to SLOW down. Often I am the type of person who wants to hurry things up. The Lord showed me that I should enjoy these moments.

I truly treasure the times of exercising with my children, the conversations, the leaf collecting, the reflecting on God’s beauty, and the memories. Sometimes we may even take a trip to the library if we don’t take out too many books. Other times we recite memory work as a way to make up for the time spent outside away from schooling. I know that instilling a habit of exercising is essential for my children. I am thankful that the Lord has allowed us to share these moments.

I also appreciate our current dog, Pepper, who truly was a gift from God. My one requirement for our next dog was that she could run with me. Well, not only did the Lord bless Anna with a dog for Christmas as she had prayed, but He also granted my desire. If I am not seen running with John and Anna, then I will more than likely be running with Pepper. The Lord has a funny sense of humor giving Anna dog for Christmas almost two years ago when I wanted her to get one for her birthday in April. I wanted to control the timing of getting a new dog, but the Lord knows what is best. For that I am grateful. Pepper brings much joy to our whole family.

Finally, I am thankful for my truly giving husband, Brian. Although he doesn’t feel well often, he constantly gives of himself and tries his best in spite of his poor health. I am blessed as Brain ALWAYS says!

Monday, November 11, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~Kris Blaede

I am thankful for the hard gift God has provided me through my son Kayleb.   He has taught me NOT to view the world through my own eyes, but rather look into and learn about the needs of others.   While Kayleb looks like every other regular kid he doesn't function the same.  You can't "SEE" his needs and people often become frustrated (including mom and dad).  When we adopted Kayleb I had the naïve and arrogant thought that I would "fix" him.   What really happened is that God, through Kayleb, fixed me.    Kayleb has made great strides to overcome his tumultuous past and he is striving to move forward.  At the same time I have learned to be more patient, educated, understanding, and most importantly trusting in the Lord.  We struggle daily to progress, but I can't imagine my life without him.    By LOOKING I have learned that behavior is not always a lack of training but can be an outcry for something left unspoken.   It is our job, while we continue to train, to figure it out.    Thank you Lord for this gift!


Sunday, November 10, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~Andrea Belonga

God reveals his character and love through his different names in the Bible. I am thankful for El Roi, which in Hebrew means "The God Who Sees Me". This particular name of God is seen only one time in scripture and it is when Hagar encountered God in the desert and addressed him as El Roi. She had been running away from her mistress Sarai who had mistreated Hagar after finding out about her pregnancy.

"She [Hagar] gave this name to the LORD who spoke to her: "You are the God who sees me," for she said, "I have now seen the One who sees me." That is why the well was called Beer Lahai Roi [the "well of the Living One who sees me"] Genesis 16:13

I find great comfort in the fact that God sees us, hears us, and knows us intimately. He sees our pain, loneliness, confusion, hopelessness, and despair. Even when we think things are hopeless or that God has abandoned us, He is there. He sees. His eye is even on the sparrow; how much more is His eye on us! He cares for us, hears our prayers, and is altogether faithful. He sees our need and He hears our cries for help. He answers in His timing, for our good and for His glory. He is weaving our story into the bigger picture of His story, although we may not understand His purposes or timing.

Saturday, November 9, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving~ Marylin van Pelt

My daughters and I found this recipe one Thanksgiving several years ago. We were looking for something to do with Thanksgiving leftovers that would be tasty and different. We made these croquettes together and it is now a "new" tradition. My girls were excited and thankful that they got to add to the "traditions" of our Thanksgiving time together and I was thankful that we shared a new experience that turned into a tradition!

Turkey Croquettes with Mushroom-Rosemary Gravy (Rachel Ray, Food Network)
1 clove garlic, cracked from skin
½ small onion
1 rib celery, chopped
¼ small red bell pepper, chopped
1 cup cooked, chopped turkey meat, white and/or dark
1 cup leftover mashed potatoes
1 egg
1 cup leftover dressing
Salt and pepper
2 teaspoons poultry seasoning
Few sprigs of parsley, leaves only
1 cup Italian bread crumbs, separated ¾ cups and ¼ cup
½ cups grated Romano, a couple of handfuls
1 tablespoon butter
3 tablespoons extra-virgin oil
 
Recipe for Mushroom-Rosemary Gravy (You can skip this and use your leftover gravy from Thanksgiving Dinner)
 
2 tablespoons butter
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
12 cremini mushrooms, thinly sliced
3 to 4 sprigs fresh rosemary, finely chopped
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
3 cups chicken stock
 
 
Place the garlic, onion, celery and red bell pepper in food processor and pulse to fine chop. Add turkey, potatoes, egg, dressing, salt, pepper, poultry seasoning and parsley leaves then pulse to process and combine the mixture (I do this part by hand, not in processor). Remove from processor and add ¾ cup of bread crumbs.
 
Heat a small skillet over medium heat with 2 Tablespoons butter and tablespoon oil.  When butter melts add the mushrooms and cook until dark and tender, 5 to 6 minutes. Season the mushrooms with salt and pepper and add rosemary to the pan.  Sprinkle the flour over the mushrooms and cook a minute. Whisk in the stock, bring to a bubble and thicken, 5 minutes, over medium-low heat.
 
Preheat a nonstick skillet with 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil and 1 tablespoon butter over medium heat.
 
Use a conical or round ice cream scoop to form 8 croquettes.  Combine cheese and remaining ¼ cup of bread crumbs on a plate. Coat the croquettes in cheese and bread crumbs and sauté in hot oil until deeply golden all over, 5 to 6 minutes for each batch.  Remove and drain on paper towels. Serve the croquettes with rosemary gravy poured down over them.

Friday, November 8, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving~ Fran Kaylor

Thankfulness for...
First, my long-suffering, faithful, merciful, gracious Savior, not only for saving me from eternal separation from Him, but equally from a life of hopelessness as I continually struggle, rebel, and repent, running back to His open arms each day. 
Second, the people God sends as ambassadors and fragrances of Christ who, as our Friday morning study has made real, closely incarnate these sweet qualities to me as I endure and am being refined. 
Third, the opportunity Ed and I have to be with our daughter, her husband, and 2 grandchildren in California for the first time ever at Thanksgiving in their 14 years of marriage.
Fourth, the anticipation of answered prayer: for singleness of purpose in all our children's, their spouses', and grand children's hearts and lives to do as Jesus says in Matthew 22:37-40...to love the LORD [their] God with all [their] hearts and souls and minds; and others as themselves.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Rebekah Lovelace

A Tradition of Thanksgiving
 
Some of you know I come from a family of 6 children... Thanksgiving has always been a fun time together as a family... I remember watching Cheaper by the Dozen when it came out and telling Michael that my family was not noisy like that... he was very sweet to just smile. Soon after, we had a family get together and yes, we were that noisy, but honestly I wouldn't change that for a minute! ;) 
 
My Uncle and Aunt and cousin have traveled to celebrate Thanksgiving with us most years, and often we have had other individuals or families join us. I am very thankful for my mother, who instilled in us the importance of hospitality and serving others- inviting others to come together for fellowship over a meal. Oftentimes growing up we would have church family, missionaries or other friends join us for a meal or stay. Fellowship is such a beautiful gift that the Lord has given to us as believers. My family benefited so much from those times and it is my desire to pass that on to my own children. 
 
One of the traditions at Thanksgiving that has always brought a sweet time of reflection and discussion is that my parents would print off Scripture verses of praise. Then they would place one at each place setting. At some point in the meal we would each read our verse then share what we were thankful for. It is something we haven't done in a few years, but I am hopeful that we will begin it again... Especially as grandchildren are now old enough to also join in on this special tradition. :) Time together is wonderful, but bringing the Lord into the midst of our conversations really is a blessing and deepens the relationships that we have with one another. I wanted to share this as I thought maybe you might consider doing something similar. :)
 
May the Lord richly bless you this Thanksgiving season!
 
Revelation 7:9-12 says, "After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands, and crying out with a loud voice, 'Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb!'  And all the angels were standing around the throne and around the elders and the four living creatures, and they fell on their faces before the throne and worshiped God, saying, 'Amen! Blessing and glory and wisdom and thanksgiving and honor and power and might be to our God forever and ever! Amen.'"
 
Love in Christ, Rebekah Lovelace

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~Linda Armstrong

 I am thankful for:
  • The gift of salvation
  • Comfort in grief
  • Life becoming precious to me after many years of longing for 'escape from the reality of it'- (though it's no secret that I long to join those who have gone on ahead of me through death)- I now want to experience the maximum fullness of life while here with assurance of better to come!  
  • God's handiwork in creation - in nature but especially in people - 
  • Lessons in love - how to receive, how to give (learned mostly from receiving), how to hold onto and how to let go of those ones we cling so tightly to...
  • Experiences in travel and in staying put
  • Healing:  spiritual, emotional, mental, physical
  • Being granted a heart more inclined to obedience to my Lord and Master Jesus  ---a very long row to hoe for me, indeed
  • Of correction from the Lord--how very much I need it.  And especially of a resulting genuine repentance.
  • The gift of perseverance when I feel like giving up
  • The gift of a house for shelter from heat and cold
  • Neighbors who accept me - neighbors who would rather not-- and how God intends to use all these relationships for my good and His glory
  • Friendship - learning to have, make and receive friends after so many years of 'self-sufficiency' which God abhors...
  • Singing out in church (I could always hide under Tim's good voice) with hopefully decreasing self-consciousness and much more God-consciousness
  • Looking for and expecting the best from others as opposed to my stubborn skepticism.
  • The Promise of being forever HOME 
These are just the beginning.  But some significant things for me.  God is close to the brokenhearted and tender with His own.  But He is also just and (praise His Name) the Justifier  of those who seek Him.
 
May His Glory be made known in and through His people!

Linda Armstrong

Philippians 1:6  'Being confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will complete it until the Day of Jesus Christ.'

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~Marilyn Phagan

One of the many things I am thankful for is the training I have received from the Share Your Faith Workshop.  I have been able to use this in talking with friends in a conversational way. When I go with Marty to other churches where this is being implemented, it makes me thankful that God uses people  It is a real blessing to see the Holy Spirit take the conversation and work in the heart of the hearer.  You learn to see where God is working and join Him in it. I am also thankful that this training will be available to the saints of Redeemer Nov 23 .  I pray that God will lay it on your heart to attend.

Monday, November 4, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving~ Anne Chamberlin

"I am thankful for the big sky here in Texas. I miss it when I am away in places cluttered with hills and buildings. And when I come back to it I'm so glad to see it is still stretching so far, from from north to south. 

I like the grey tides of clouds drifting across the orange sunset and the deepening blue on the other side, with a few twinkling lights of trucks or stars there.

I like the black hulk of a bushy tree in front of the broad band of twinkling periwinkle. 

I like that I have to shield my feeble eyes and submit to sunglasses driving into that clean, bright morning sun. 

And every morning and evening is a different picture, number 2,732,452 of the Artist's series. 

The firmament here in Texas truly does show his handiwork! I'm thankful for the big sky and the Artist who painted it, for his glory and my enjoyment. 

Sunday, November 3, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~Kelley Burgess

I am thankful for birds. True confession: I am a nerd for birds. I go on birdwatching trips and I carry spare binoculars in my car. I have 5 bird feeders and a bird bath that I watch from my kitchen table. I have been known to have poor eye contact with family and friends around the table if there's action at the feeders. Birdwatching is a spiritual experience for me. When I see a painted bunting I praise God for the supreme Artist that He is. When my resident barn swallows show up in the spring I praise God for the seasons and the events that display His faithfulness. When I see sparrows I am reminded of God's love and care, since not even the death of a sparrow escapes His notice. Do you know that we are commanded to be bird watchers?! In Matthew 6:26 Jesus says, "Look at the birds of the air..." (and then the best part) "they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?"

Saturday, November 2, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Susan Ray

I am thankful for the word of God that is living and active. In the same way that when God said, “Let there be light,” there had to be light, when he says, “I am with you” and “My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth” and it is so. His word is truth. Thanks be to God!

Friday, November 1, 2013

30 Days of Thanksgiving ~ Kathryn Ritchie

I told my husband that being in labor gives me a sliver of insight into why a prisoner of war might finally crack and tell the secrets. Just those few hours of labor about did me in. I can’t imagine being in excruciating pain with no end in sight!

After my daughter was born I just held her there in the birthing tub and thanked God out loud for His goodness – in getting me through a natural labor, in giving me this child, in the incredible lovingkindness He had poured into my life, so undeserving as I am.

After great trials are over it can be quite natural to thank God – confidently, out loud, no matter who can hear. We praise God because the trial is so fresh in our mind and we so vividly saw God fight for us, carry us, be our Helper, and be our triumphant victory.  But then things slowly shift back to normal.

A little while ago my son had the largest diaper explosion I have ever witnessed – probably the largest ever known to mankind. That happened the same time my daughter was wailing. My brother-in-law by mistake shredded my credit card (long story of how that happened… and it takes 10 days to get in a new one). Last night my husband and I had been planning a date night and, as we were walking out the door, there was a work emergency that took so long it caused us to miss going to Brooks Brothers before it closed.

Its not always the large things that so subtly steal our joy, putting our once praising hearts back into the captivity ungratefulness. Its often the small things… hardly even worth mentioning to another, yet significant time zapping frustrations about which I’m going throughout the day fretting. I really don’t want to be an ungrateful woman, but at times that characterizes my heart. Didn’t Paul talk about this… oh dreadful soul I am, doing the things I don’t want to do, not doing the things I do want to do?

There seems to be two major reasons my heart loses its gratefulness. First, when I turn my eyes onto my circumstances instead of God. That’s when the dirty diapers seem so out of control. That’s when missing going to a sale at Brooks Brothers seems so irritating (even though that meant we went to the mall instead and now I’m typing while wearing a pretty new pearl ring). But we all have heard that many times… don’t focus on the circumstances… and we all try to catch ourselves from dwelling too long on that negative road.

Here is the second reason and it’s this that we so often miss. Don’t end your focus on the good gifts! That’s dangerous (what happens when you lose a good gift or you see everyone else having something good that you aren’t given at all?) and causes you to miss out on deep joy as a Christian. Don’t get so caught up in the new pearl rings in your life that you miss glorying in your Redeemer. Don’t focus only on what God has done for you, missing taking joy in who He is. You may not always understand His acts, but you can take joy and security in knowing His ways – His attributes, His character. Train your mind and heart to delight in who God is – His faithfulness, His lovingkindness, His goodness, His justice. Meditate on these things and watch how God will mold your heart to live in gratefulness.

This Thanksgiving I am asking God for the gift of a genuine grateful heart focused on His attributes, particularly His lovingkindness. I’m asking Him for this knowing I don’t have it in me. In my own strength I waver away so quickly – seemingly ever so godly and grateful as I held my newborn a few weeks ago, and then sliding right back into ungrateful mode.

And so, I pray… Lord, this Thanksgiving may I take hold of the grace and victory you have given me to delight in You, particularly being mindful of the attribute of Your unfailing love. As I do this may You fill my heart with joy. May my heart continually sing Your praises as I glory in You, My Redeemer, My All.

And a bit of homework for us…

Perhaps make a list, posting it on the refrigerator, on a mirror, or in your Bible. Daily write out several things for which you are grateful… the people in your life, physical abilities (being about to hear, talk, see), items (just think what life would be like without light bulbs, cement, and refrigerators?) Or, as you are driving, rehearse out loud the material and physical gifts God has given you. But most of all thank God for who He is. It is as we focus on the Creator that we gain a heart of thanksgiving. And it is then, as we turn our eyes to creation – to what He has given His people – our hearts will find a proper joy in praising Him for these gifts as well.

Thursday, October 31, 2013

CCEF Conference Testimony~ Ashli Kottwitz

“Not Alone” was the theme of the CCEF Conference in Frisco this year.  I was awestruck by the simplicity and yet extreme depth of this statement in relationship to us as that we are never alone as Christians.  When I felt most alone in my life: when I signed the papers for my husband to be taken off life-support or when I left my suffering husband at one hospital to pick up my sick daughter and take her to another hospital for admission for dehydration.  But I was never really alone.  Both instances, I cried out to the Lord and wondered why I was alone and if had he forsaken me.  However, as I look back, God sent another friend to be with my husband, and my father-in-law showed up at the hospital to check on Lana and me.  That was Him being there; I am never truly alone.  I need only to take a deep breath, remember and feel that He is with me.  This is the true definition of faith, is it not?

It can be easy to believe in the Lord and His strength and power on a good day.  Except, what about the horrible days, the loneliest days, the days when despair peeks around the corner?  Those days test your faith the most; can you remember that the Lord is good and He is always near you even on those days?

One of the speakers at the conference spoke about the fact that Christ is always with us.  And He knows what it is like to be truly alone.  He lay on the Cross feeling more alone than we could ever be.  At that point when He became sin for us, he knew true loneliness.  If we believe this fundamental of Christianity, then the speaker went on to say that we always have HOPE as our defense in these tough days.  As the speaker went on he said, we forget about the Lord on the great days when all is going our way.  Then we humans tend to bring Him out of our pocket when the bad times hit.  The speaker then said that Christ never forgets about us, but we forget about Him.  We are always on His mind.

Finally, there is no pain that we have felt that Christ, when he took on human form, has not felt before.  He is not a God sitting in the Heavens apart from us; He has been where we have been.  He is feeling your pain; He is true compassion.  Also, the speaker pointed out that true compassion is where someone takes on a bit of your pain.  They carry it with them.  Christ can take our pain; He brings true empathy.  He is there with you in every moment of your life.  You are never alone. 

What a comfort this speaker brought to me! - Ashli Kottwitz

Matthew 11:28-30
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, 
and I will give you rest. 
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, 
for I am gentle and humble in heart, 
and you will find rest for your souls. 
For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

CCEF conference ~Anne Chamberlin

God with Us

The Christian Counseling and Education Foundation’s (CCEF) conference two weekends ago centered on the theme, “Not Alone.” The mission of CCEF is to “restore Christ to counseling and restore counseling to the church.”

In this age (as in every other), people find themselves feeling isolated, lonely, and adrift from God and their community. This is true for married and single people, men and women, children and adults.  But God is a personal and intimate companion; he came right alongside us in his incarnation. The force and focus of the weekend was for us to reach out and model Christ’s companionship to others (family, friends, co-workers, clients).

David and I attended all but one of the main sessions and many of the plenary sessions, so I thought it might be best to just share a paraphrase of each session I attended. After the conference, I felt spiritually and emotionally refreshed from hearing experienced biblical counselors teach and exhort us about relationship – God’s relationship with me and my relationship with others. (I was also physically refreshed by the Cajun food truck, but that is another blog.)

For me, the conference called to my mind Isaiah’s description of the coming Messiah as “Immanuel: God with us.” Indeed much of the conference centered on the person and work of the incarnate Jesus Christ. From him we understand ourselves and others, so that we can counsel and minister personally and effectively.

We enter into others lives as Christ did in the following ways:

We are builders (David Powlison): “Every relationship is intentional.” Every interaction we have with other image-bearers -- whether that interaction is small or great, light or deep, glancing or permanent -- is either building bridges or building walls. How we speak to people, even in casual and light conversations (which are not bad), either sends the message that we wish to build a bridge to someone or that we wish to wall them off.

We are Christ-modelers (Elyse Fitzpatrick): Christ entered into humanity, laboring and living in an obscure “hick town” before his public ministry, pleasing his Father in all of his daily activities, from the most mundane daily labor to his glorious resurrection. He did not despise his body, but he joined in the human experience, yet without sin. We are called to be like him: to enter into the lives of others, to listen, and show them Christ. Do not scorn the mundane, but embrace it by serving God even in the everyday, as Christ did.

We are dialoguers (Julie Lowe): As parents, do you value compliance more than engagement with your children? Are you daily seeking to be in dialogue and conversation with them? Do you speak of and reflect on the delights of living as much as the disciplines of living? Finally -- Do you require of yourself what you require of them?

We are listeners (Ed Welch): Do you seek to ask meaningful and probing questions in order to enter into the lives of others, both their triumphs and joys and their failures and sufferings? Our demeanor and perspective, in the joys and the trials, should be, “Tell me more. Give me the details. How can I pray for you?” (Be careful about answering someone’s shared concern by telling your own story immediately. This shuts people down. Instead, listen and probe.)

We are reconcilers (Cecilia Bernhardt): God uses conflict to foster character in his saints, and he intends for conflict to draw us closer to him and to each other. We tend to begin conflicts with an eye towards self-service, but, if we see Jesus, we can change that to having an eye towards God’s reality in the situation. If we are interested in God’s truth, we can face conflict with humility rather than self-service.

We are affirmers (Aaron Sironi): The model and command of Scripture is not to flatter, but “to be alert for what God considers good.” (Eg: Jesus with Nathaniel and the centurion, Proverbs 31, Romans 8.) If we only see and verbalize what is wrong in people and situations, we need to repent. God himself commends a motley group of saints in Hebrews 11 (Gideon, Samson, etc). It is not enough to think and notice good things; we must verbalize those things.

In closing, this conference was replete with wise counsel, challenging our perspectives and exhorting us to truly engage with people in their need.

The basis and foundation of all of the teaching was Jesus Christ’s finished work and his example of how to enter in and truly love others intimately and personally. How do we know that we are not alone? By looking at him and his incarnation. How do we know how to love others and come alongside them? By learning from him, who entered into humanity and who intercedes for us.

Colossians 1:3-8 “We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love that you have for all the saints, because of the hope laid up for you in heaven.”

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Building Retreat Testimony~ Linda Clark

You know how you attend a wonderful retreat, get all fired up with resolutions and then slowly get sidetracked with life back “in the real world”? Well, recently I attended a senior ladies Bible study discussion group at another church, and this get together reminded me of the Presbytery Women’s Retreat with its emphasis on building relationships and my desire to have someone special to mentor. The Bible study showed me the blessings of meeting with older women and hearing their stories and their wisdom about different scriptures. It also reminded me of the importance and need for women to be mentoring women. So now I’ve gone back to my notes from the Presbytery retreat to get myself back on track and praying for that special woman &/or women God has for me to mentor and to mentor me and also to share with anyone who may read this what was so special about our North Texas Presbytery Ministry to Women Retreat 2013.

Notes from NTPMWR13:
~Mentoring relationships encourage & build one another up.
~Mentoring relationships can be formal or informal & long or short.
~Mentoring relationships can change over time & require relational wisdom along with clear
communication.
~Mentoring relationships are for ALL women.
~Mentoring relationships should be Christ centered and gospel focused.

Basically in a nut shell, women need to talk to other women. But more than that, our words need to be Christ centered, gospel focused, encouraging and building up each other. Whew! It seems like a very important assignment our Father has given us. Yet talking comes natural to most of us, so we, with Holy Spirit’s help, must pray, pray, pray that our words are within these parameters, then we will be mentoring others informally all the time.

One of the scriptures from the retreat was Titus 2:3-5, which challenged me with some very specific instructions for older women (EVERYONE is an older woman to someone):
*be reverent in behavior
*don’t slander (gossip is so easy to fall into….WATCH OUT!)
*don’t drink too much wine
*teach what’s good & train the young women to love their husbands & children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, & submissive to their husbands.
*do all this in order not to revile the Word

As older women, it’s our responsibility to be an example to the younger women in our sphere of influence: We are role models good or bad, whether we want to be or not. Sort of like those movie stars & athletes, who say they’re not role models, but they are. Someone is watching our every word & action, especially if we give ourselves the name Christian. So no matter our age, young or old, or our maturity in the faith, our lives must not revile the Word. Dear Father, forgive us again for reviling the Word and give us Your grace to be reverent in behavior, self-controlled, pure, kind encouragers for You.

Another scripture from the retreat was 1 Thessalonians 5:11 “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.”

The retreat was excellent for making me think about the importance of being a Mentor & how we ALL need to be mentored, old and young. Heavenly Father, send Holy Spirit to touch our hearts and make our words, words of encouragement, which build up each other.

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Fall Retreat Recap~ Melodie Bajame

Fall Retreat 2013
“Blessed are Those Who Build!”
Frisco, TX
 “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as your are doing.”
I Thessalonians 5:11
 
 
We talk a lot about building ministries but how do we actually do that? In September, the women in the North Texas Presbytery gathered for their annual retreat eagerly looking forward to receiving some building advice! Advice about building teams, relationships, and ministries.

Friday night opened with a chance to reunite with friends and meet new ones along with enjoying a time of praise and worship. I presented the opening invitation with a foundational discussion about building teams - why, who, when, and how. We spent time learning about the ministries the Lord has blessed us with and how to build them in a Godly and constructive manner. The discussion included an interactive time where we built our center pieces with Legos to drive home the message that everyone has been blessed with different gifts and we need them all to have a well-rounded team. Each woman received a Spiritual Gifts survey to complete for the next day.

This year was the first year WMNTP hosted “Girl’s Night!” This year’s was coordinated by Rachele Bajema. Our younger women enjoyed a late night trip to The Cheesecake Factory while the rest of us relaxed at the lovely Hilton Garden Inn.

We opened Saturday morning with discussions about our Spiritual Gifts over breakfast. It was great to see where everyone’s gifts were! Saturday’s topics continued with the building theme and the use of the gifts we have. Nicole Tsui taught on building relationships. Relationships can be formal or information, long or short, long distance, change over time, require relational wisdom and clear communication. Looking at our gifts and where we can be of encouragement and equip a younger woman is our Biblical calling. Cheryl Kendrick shared her wisdom on building mercy ministries. How do we relate with those in need, how do we help in the short term or long term, and much more. We learned to look for issues and actions the people themselves are willing to work on not just what we think is best. The best ministries assist people to be independent and support themselves and their families with their work.

The day closed with a discussion about media in our ministries - both print and social. Panel members included Nicole, Liz Withers from Design Products, and myself. We learned about the options available for our ministries to get the word out from church bulletins to posters, from Facebook to blogs, etc. It is important that we use a variety of mediums as we are reaching out to many different types of women. Through a Q & A session, other women shared what has worked for them. We were encouraged to look closely at the demographic of our ministries to be most effective.

The retreat closed with a variety of resources being presented for the women to use in their own ministries. Each seminar and discussion used several resources. I have listed below the resources we used that weekend for you to use in your ministries. The women were encouraged to use these resources to build their ministries. The Lord blessed us with a wonderful time of learning together. We pray that the women were able to return to their homes "encouraged and built up!"

Sincerely,
Melodie Bajema

Online Resources
PCA Website: http://www.pcanet.org/
General PCA information.
PCA Women's Ministry: http://www.pcacep.org/women/
Our resource for ministry basics, events, recommended studies, etc.
Meet the leaders of the PCA's Women's Ministry!
PCA Bookstore: http://www.cepbookstore.com/c-207-women.aspx
 Great resource for Bible studies, training information, and much, much, more!
WIC Love Gift: http://vimeo.com/56694305
 You are welcome to share this video with your church!
Barna Group: https://www.barna.org/
Resource for faith and cultural statistics
Lifeway Christian Resources: http://www.lifeway.com/Article/Women-Leadership-Spiritual-gifts-
growth-service
This is where the Spiritual Gifts Survey is listed.
Please note this is NOT a PCA website but a useful tool! :)
(click on "Events" for Leadership Training" details)
Books: (all available at the PCA Bookstore)
"Becoming a Woman of Influence" by Carol Kent
"The Legacy of Biblical Womanhood" by Susan Hunt and Barbara Thompson
“Spiritual Mothering: The Titus 2 Mold for Women Mentoring Women” by Susan Hunt
“The True Woman” by Susan Hunt
“When Helping Hurts” by Steve Corbet and Brian Fikkert
“A Woman’s Guide to Discipling” by Dana Yeakley
"Women's Ministry in the Local Church" by Susan Hunt and Ligon Duncan
"Women's Ministry Training and Resource Guide" by Susan Hunt